《Born to be the One》In the finale, I still don’t understand Shen Lei’s choice

Recently, "Born to be the One" starring several outstanding actors was aired. The ratings and popularity after the airing were also very good. The plot and characterization in the play were also very good. It is a very worthwhile movie.An excellent episode to watch.《Born to be the One》 In the finale, I still don’t understand Shen Lei’s choice. There has been a lot of discussion recently, so I will tell you about it next.

《Born to be the One》The finale.I still don’t understand Shen Lei (Qin Junjie)’s choice!Divorce is right, but giving up your job is too willful!

Some people think that Shen Lei (played by Qin Junjie) has a good ending, letting go of Xie Meilan (played by Chen Haoyu) and finding a career that he truly loves.

But I don't understand it at all.As a person who finally came to Beijing from the countryside and took the college entrance examination, he was able to settle down and become a civil servant.

How difficult this is.It can be seen how much sweat his parents put in. Since he was a child, he has not been allowed to work in the fields and focus on studying.

It’s not that he doesn’t love his original job. He is particularly positive and has the courage to challenge unfamiliar jobs. Qin Fen works hard and is not proud.

Although there was little hope of promotion, he still had an iron rice bowl. This was a job that many locals in Beijing envied, but he gave up because he couldn't bear to think about it.

If I were his parent, not only would I not understand, I would hate him, and I might even refuse him to come home again, because being willful means being responsible.

Some people say that the reason why Shen Lei could not detect Xie Meilan's emotional changes was because his work within the system made him lack the ability to observe words and emotions.

I don't agree. The more people are in the system, especially those who sit in offices, the more leisure they have and the more time they have to observe people's behavior and even figure out human nature.

When I was sitting in an office in a private company, I had a lot of time to fish, not to mention Shen Lei's work?Otherwise, he would be too busy looking for work?

Just because of his personality, if you ask him to work in Na Juan (played by Zhang Zhehua)'s company, he will also not be able to learn to socialize and make relationships.

A person with this kind of personality will definitely have trouble getting promoted and getting a salary increase, but it is right to choose him as your husband. He will not have extramarital affairs.

He can be filial to the elders of both parties, he can hand over financial power to his wife, he can not interfere with his wife's social life, and he can be able to teach his children to be patient in the future.

If I met a young man like Shen Lei when I was single, I would pursue him with all my strength, because I am also a person who has no ambition and seeks stability.

It was Xie Meilan who changed, from pursuing simplicity and a beautiful spiritual world when she was a student to pursuing material and social status during her working life.

It's not that she is bad. There is nothing wrong with pursuing progress, wanting to rise, wanting to be more famous, and wanting to be richer, but betraying love is shameful.

Even though Xie Meilan did not accept the love of Lu Jie (played by Wang Ziquan) during the marriage, she was definitely affected, which can be regarded as half-spiritual cheating.

She could have filed for divorce more tactfully and step by step. She knew that Shen Lei was a jerk, so she just filed for divorce regardless.

To put it mildly, Shen Lei was lucky that he did not choose to commit suicide!If Shen Lei chooses to commit suicide because of her stimulation.

Even if Xie Meilan will not bear responsibility in a legal sense, her conscience will be condemned for the rest of her life, and the Shen family will not forgive her.

Fortunately, Shen Lei just went out for a walk. It was this walk that cost him his iron job, which made his family worried and his parents worried.

Although it is not shown in the plot, it can be inferred that during the nearly one year since Shen Lei left home, Xie Meilan lived a happy life and was in love.

I have a feeling of helplessness toward Shen Lei, who hates that iron cannot be made into steel, and I also have a kind of contempt for Xie Meilan, who is willing to fight and suffer.

If I were Shen Lei, I would either refuse to divorce and make life difficult for both of us.Either learn from Na Juan, divorce immediately, and quickly find someone to remarry.

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