Welcome to the comfort zone
In a busy city, Xiaowan and Xiaoqian live together under the same roof as roommates.Although they have very different personalities, they have been working hard to maintain a harmonious cohabitation life.However, differences in the details of life have gradually become an invisible barrier between them.
Xiao Wan is a person who has almost harsh demands on life. His mysophobia often makes people around him puzzled.As for Xiao Qian, a casual and free-spirited person, his lifestyle is in sharp contrast to Xiao Wan.Whenever Xiao Qian's behavior touches Xiao Wan's % hygiene bottom line, Xiao Wan will always point it out and correct it without mercy.Although Xiaoqian felt helpless about this, he was not willing to change his lifestyle.
One day, Xiao Wan and Xiao Hei were enjoying tea in the background. Xiao Qian just came out of the bathroom and joined them.However, Xiaowan bluntly pointed out that Xiaoqian had not washed his hands.This made Xiao Qian lose face in front of everyone, and he decided to make changes and let Xiao Wan accept his lifestyle.
In order to win this bet, Xiao Qian began to look for theoretical basis. He believed that Xiao Wan's hygiene standards were too strict, even to the point of obsessive-compulsive disorder.He firmly believes that everyone has his own way of life, and Xiao Wan should respect his choice.In order to prove her point of view, Xiaoqian actually asked Tony, a psychology teacher, for help.
In the coffee shop, Xiao Wan was so entangled by Xiao Qian that he had no choice but to go with him to meet Teacher Tony.However, Teacher Tony’s behavior and certain expressions made Xiaowan feel uncomfortable.He felt that Teacher Tony did not really understand his ideas, but was a little offended.
After Teacher Tony left, Xiao Qian remained stubborn and tried to convince Xiao Wan with his own theory.However, Xiao Wan began to reflect on whether he was really too harsh and whether he should give Xiao Qian more space.At the same time, he also realizes that despite their differences, understanding and respect are the keys to maintaining a harmonious relationship.
In the end, Xiaowan and Xiaoqian found a balance point in in-depth communication.They understand that everyone has their own lifestyle and boundaries, and the important thing is to learn to understand and respect each other.Although there was no winner in this gambling game, it made them cherish their friendship and understanding even more.They understand that true harmony does not require the other party to completely change, but to find resonance and balance in differences.
