《Spending Chinese Years》quarrelsome expressions of love are in fashion

Currently, the popular drama "Du Hua Nian" has attracted the attention of many viewers in terms of the actors' appearance, acting skills and plot.Among them, there has been constant discussion on the popularity of quarrel-style expressions of love - "Du Hua Nian". Now, let's take a look at this topic that the audience is most concerned about.

I came across a very interesting note a few days ago, which gave me a new perspective on love.The notes mentioned that conflicts between couples can actually increase their feelings. That is what we often say, the more they argue, the more they fall in love.

Research points to the neural mechanisms by which couples enhance love through conflict.

“When couples discuss conflicting topics, their brain synchronization is significantly higher than when they discuss supportive topics.The high arousal of couples in conflict situations induces greater brain activity synchronization, which in turn increases the intensity of the romantic relationship between couples.”

It is not difficult to see that quarreling is not a bad thing in a relationship. When handled properly, conflict can even become an opportunity to understand each other better and the relationship will become stronger.

Nowadays, when we are in intimate relationships, we care more and more about what the other person provides - the emotional value.Compared with the cold war and escape, people in love increasingly want to make things clear when things happen.

Under such a general trend, "quarrel-style expressions of love" are also becoming popular.

Recently I was watching "Spring Time", and the male and female protagonists in the drama happened to have this kind of communication method.The two strong men were sharp-tongued, fell in love and killed each other, and gave out sweets in a quarrel-like manner. I was stunned for a while.

At the beginning of the first episode, the eldest princess Li Rong (played by Zhao Jinmai) and the consort Pei Wenxuan (played by Zhang Linghe) are already an old couple who have been married for 20 years and have long-standing grievances.I originally thought this would be a story in reverse order, retracing the past love and hatred between the two people for the audience to judge together. Unexpectedly, the real plot gave me a big surprise.

The male and female protagonists died as soon as they appeared.

The female protagonist was poisoned and died, and the male protagonist was assassinated. From the perspective of both of them, they both felt that the other one killed them.Coincidentally, because of this death, both people's consciousnesses returned to their bodies 20 years ago.It's like a dream but not a dream, life is reopened, but the story line remains the same.

It must be mentioned here that there is a power struggle between aristocratic families in the play, and it is not just about love. Therefore, even if the eldest princess's life is restarted, even if she has a love-hate relationship with Pei Wenxuan, she will have to return to that place again.At this time, there are actually not many people to choose from.

So whether to live completely different lives or still choose each other, the choice becomes very subtle.

At this moment, neither of them knew that the other party also carried 20 years of memories, so when they communicated, they were three-quarters of fake politeness, plus seven-cent of the subconscious communication of an old married couple.For example, the eldest princess subconsciously cursed Pei Wenxuan one by one - shit -. As a viewer who has been married for three years, I didn't have a strong sense of empathy when watching it.

It wasn't until a wonderful chess match that the two people's repeated trials were finally verified, and they confirmed that the other party was in the same situation as themselves, and they both re-inhabited this young skin with a mature mind.

The plot has advanced to this point, and every step is really not delayed. When I looked at the progress bar, I actually reached the point where both of them revealed their identities before the second episode was finished. It was so fast and exciting.

I thought they would have a back-and-forth about the grudges from the previous life, but no, not at all!The two of them immediately started playing ball with each other, discussing the overall situation, and seeing whether they could jointly start a business in the name of husband and wife this time around, compete for power, and be happy and generous.

Speaking of the previous lives of the male and female protagonists, there were indeed many unresolved grievances.For example, Pei Wenxuan had a childhood sweetheart who died in his arms. From the perspective of the eldest princess, this matter was simply ambiguous. It was not clear what happened until the two of them died.

Another example is that the eldest princess reluctantly started a very pioneering open marriage relationship because of Pei Wenxuan's infidelity. The two of them had their own affairs in the name of husband and wife., but the conflict between the two has never been truly resolved.

Even the actual cause of death of these two people actually became a mystery after the communication.He didn't kill her, and she didn't kill him. There was a lot of strangeness in it.

The two people had unresolved problems in the previous life. Fortunately, the male and female protagonists in this life started over with their mouths.If there is any conflict, we will quarrel. If there is any conflict, we will resolve it. There is not even half a minute to feel sorry for ourselves.From the audience's perspective, it's so refreshing.

I don’t know if it’s because I am in a marriage myself, so when I watched this drama, I had a strong sense of immersion. I didn’t even think it was a puppet show, but it was very close to real life.

Swearing when facing each other

When it comes to inner drama, he becomes extremely gentle

This reminds me of a previous discussion between my friend and I about intimate relationships: after a conflict occurs in an intimate relationship, reconciliation will create a positive cycle in the relationship.

When you realize that the other person's way of thinking or acting is different from yours, and you try to reach an agreement, this in itself is a manifestation of a higher pursuit of this relationship.

Next, you communicate candidly, even if the dispute is slightly fierce, but as long as your purpose is to make this matter clear, and both parties are sincere enough and work hard enough, these conflicts will always be resolved one by one at some point.Of course, by resolution I don't mean that the conflict disappears, but that you find a way to better live with your differences.

Even because they have just experienced a quarrel, both people will feel a little guilty. At this time, their love will become stronger in their hearts, and they may even love each other more than before the dispute.

After five years of getting along, my husband and I are now very familiar with this communication mode of creating and resolving conflicts.Many times, we can resolve those minor conflicts well just by expressing and discussing them calmly.

It does not mean that our relationship is not good, but it is an expression of trying to be better.Just like the growth of muscles, the muscle fibers that grow back together after being torn are stronger and stronger.

So I think this is the point where the eldest princess and Pei Wenxuan are in conflict with each other in the play.Watching a pair of lovers who have long been familiar with each other re-establish a relationship, the feeling of falling in love and killing each other becomes more subtle.

Speaking of which, I have to mention the acting skills of Zhao Jinmai and Zhang Linghe in the play, which really exceeded my expectations!

Maybe it's because my sister Zhao Jinmai has always been a little girl in my mind. I didn't expect that when she interprets the inner activities of a 38-year-old woman, her sense of layering is actually very good!Especially when I was playing an old husband and wife with Zhang Linghe, I felt like the two of them had indeed spent half their lives together, and the laughter and tears were so touching.

As for Zhang Linghe, this is my first time watching him act, and it can be said that I am very surprised!Not only is the tall male protagonist of Double Doors very handsome to me, but I can really feel the charisma of Pei Wenxuan in his performance, he is smart, calm and strategic.

I have already followed episode 12. The relationship between these two is getting better and better, and the fight between the aristocratic families is becoming more and more interesting.

In order not to spoil anything, I won’t go into the specific parts of the plot. Let’s briefly talk about the current emotional state between the eldest princess and the consort.

Nowadays, the love of the consort Pei Wenxuan is not hidden. Although they still quarrel occasionally, there are also some straightforward expressions of love.When I saw this sentence in the picture - I'm here to pick you up today, aren't you happy? - I was so sweet that I covered my back molars and couldn't stop laughing!!

The part about professing love in the heavy rain made me faint.Pei Wenxuan in this section was too much like a pitiful puppy. He finally took the courage to confess all his love from the previous life through this fierce quarrel.

The sense of love between these two people is now so strong that it is completely beyond my expectation. I even dreamed last night that the eldest princess and the prince-in-law walked up to me holding hands and said: We will love each other for the rest of our lives (? Hahaha, you can see that I have been in love recently.How impressive it is to see!

Today's episode solidified the character of the couple with both strong careers.To be honest, seeing that I have now entered the state of being a fan of the couple's career, I look forward to these two completely breaking the fate of the previous life and re-opening their perspective to save everyone in HE.

It is said that the real cause of death of the male and female protagonists will not be revealed until episode 33, and in my opinion, it is not just the male and female protagonists who are reopening their perspectives, there must be others!I suggest all my friends to catch up quickly!nice!So delicious!I have a feeling this show will be a big hit!

And don’t forget the title of the movie!Yes - spend the Chinese years -!“The fifty strings of Jinse are played for no reason, each string and one column reminds me of the Chinese years”the Chinese years!Don’t forget Hua Ang!

I took a look at Youku’s drama calendar and saw that 1-2 episodes are updated every day. Every day, I can see the eldest princess and Bae Wenxuan working on their careers and romance!It feels so good to think about it!

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